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The Berenstain Bears Count Their Blessings in Mom Squad Country

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The other night, I read this book to our 7 year old. It’s an old fav in our house.

It’s a great kid’s book about being grateful about what you have, and not to worry so much about “keeping up with the Joneses”..Bear Country style, that is.

BUT apparently I wasn’t paying much attention to the message in the book because just an hour-or-so later, I was stomping about the house in TEARS (can you say PMS???) I had decided to throw myself a full blown Pity Party For One. I was miffed at myself, my world, my hubby (poor dude), and anyone else who dared cross my path.

 If the fish could have gotten out of the tank, I would have been pissed at them too.

I was P.O’d because I was “sick of our house”. SICK of the tininess. SICK of the 1/2 story with slanted ceilings, SICK of one bathroom for four people. Biotch, Biotch, Biotch.

For everyone’s safety..I went to bed.

The next morning with a clearer head I realized how petty & selfish all thinking that really was. How I needed to “count my blessings” like the Berenstain Bears.  I got up, kicked myself in the pants, and thanked God I HAD a nice house and roof over my head. That I HAD a beautiful family to share that roof with me.

Attitude Adjustment.. ACTIVATE!

I knew I needed to be grateful for what I already HAD and stop wallowing in “what should be”. I’m lucky. I really have very little to complain about. Don’t even get me started on stories of friends who have lost jobs, then houses over the last few years. Or loved ones.

Then I read an absolutely amazing post from friend, fellow blogger, and future Mom Squader Laura  over the The Rad Life . WOW, girlfriend. She really reinforced my whole little “Mama Drama” scene that sometimes we need to stop, re-adjust, and re-remind ourselves that though our lives are not perfect, what we have it still a blessing. Please give it a read. It is SO worth it.

Good job Laura

Now back to YOU..o’valued readers….

What are YOU grateful for??

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About Becky Flansburg

Becky Flansburg is freelance writer, blogger and virtual assistant living in Northern Minnesota. A dedicated mom to two beautiful kids, her veteran blog is filled with laughter and love about the joys parenthood. Becky is also committed to helping women realize their work-from-home dreams, enjoy life beyond the cubicle and find clarity in the work/life/family balance. Connect with Becky via her website, Twitter, Facebook and Pinterest



2 thoughts on “The Berenstain Bears Count Their Blessings in Mom Squad Country

  1. Found your blog from Hearts Make Families. Great post and so ture. We all need to step back and look at the many blessings we all have. It’s easy to get caught up in the race of life and loose our appreciation for what we do have instead of focusing on what we think we should have. Great Blog!

  2. Becky – I just realized that I haven’t subscribed to this blog yet – just FranticMommy! Consider that solved, I’m now plugged into this one too! Yayeah! Thanks for connecting to my post – you made my smile!

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